Any churchgoing Christian will understand that feeling that sometimes hits on Sunday mornings—even though you typically want to go to church, you just don’t want to that Sunday. The week is long and hard; the weekend is short (and usually full of the stuff you couldn’t get done during the week).
My brothers and I used to joke with our dad—a man who was borderline giddy as he’d wake us up for a marathon session of church (we were Pentecostal in the 1990s and early 2000s, so church was pretty much an all-day affair)—that we would “worship God in our own way” by staying home and playing Nintendo. Thank goodness he had a sense of humor and understood we were lampooning the milquetoast cultural “Christians” and New Age spiritualists who framed staying home and washing their cars as an act of piety.
But the struggle is real. I sincerely believe that Satan and his minions attack us the hardest right before church. Like most things, the justifications are reasonable: “I really need the rest”; “I have a crazy week ahead and need to get prepared for it.” Sometimes those things are legitimate concerns; more often, though, they’re just lame rationalizations, and we know it.
I’m preaching to myself here. I know from experience that missing one week of church makes it that much harder to return the following week; missing two weeks in a row or more is lethal to regular attendance. Due to our current living situation and Dr. Wife finishing up residency, we often find ourselves out of town on Sundays, but we try to attend one of our churches. Indeed, there have been times I’ve proposed staying home so we can “rest,” and she’ll insist we go to church. She’s a good woman.
Again, I understand there are exceptions. Some people—even here in the South—work on Sundays. People travel. Family events and the like sometimes interfere. Look, I’m not a Catholic—I don’t believe your salvation is contingent upon checking off the “I attended Mass so I’m good for another week” box. I do, however, believe that Scripture Instructs us to be part of a body of believers.
Going to church is beneficial spiritually first and foremost, but it’s also an opportunity to build Christian community. In an age of economic isolation and social atomization, folks are desperate to be part of something bigger than themselves. What’s bigger and better than the Bride of Christ?
Here in the South, there a sometimes more churches per square mile than people. I know other parts of the country are not so fortunate, but churches are not hard to find. Find a good one and start going!
With that, here is 17 April 2025’s “TBT^4: Go to Church“:
