TBT^4: The Hermit’s Life

The new year has dawned, and yours portly is enjoying his last day of Christmas Break before returning to work.  It’s been a busy break, full of appointments and Christmas cheer.  At the time of writing, I have (so far) avoided the annual respiratory illness that always seems to descend upon me during this dark, wintry season, although now I have surely called down this wretched curse upon my head (and lungs).

I’m looking forward to 2025—and turning 40 tomorrow.  Life is good.  God Is Good.

And I still enjoy being a hermit from time to time.

With that, here is 4 January 2024’s “TBT^2: The Hermit’s Life“:

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TBT^2: The Hermit’s Life

Well, it’s back to classes today for yours portly, and the glorious wonder of Christmas Break has officially ended (it technically ended yesterday with a teacher workday).  Yours portly is wondering why we couldn’t have a proper Christmas Break and head back to work next Monday, but I don’t get to make those decisions.

This cold, dark time of year often makes me want to hole up with hot food and old movies.  It also seems that I come down with some manner of respiratory illness, but here’s hoping that’s not the case this year (I’m writing this post super early).  The combination means I spend a lot of time loafing around with my dog.

It’s never been clear to me if I am an extrovert or an introvert.  I am gregarious at parties and love laughing and having deep conversations.  But family members will also note that, at large gatherings, I’ll typically disappear at some point, usually to some forgotten, quiet nook of whatever house or venue we’re at, reading a book or taking a nap.  My younger brother jokes about how I manage to disappear at family get-togethers.

I’ve read that some people have a certain amount of social energy, and they need to let it restore itself.  That tracks with my experience:  after a certain point, I am ready to be home.  That said, I think my meter refills quickly—I have quick “mana regen,” in JRPG terms.  A lazy weekend is usually enough to restore me to take on another never-ending week.

Whatever the case, I think we could all use some quiet alone time now and then.

With that, here is 5 January 2023’s “TBT: The Hermit’s Life“:

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The Hermit’s Life

During the long week between Christmas and New Year’s, I found myself struggling against some manner of illness (not The Virus, it seems, thank goodness).  I ran a low-grade fever for a couple of days, then suffered with a sore throat and some fatigue for a few days afterwards.  Fortunately, with the week off, I was able to hole up in Port Manor in Lamar, and regular reader and neighbor Bernard Fife brought me some homemade Christmas treats (and an at-home COVID-19 test, which came back negative).

I typically spend the holidays with my parents, or at least surrounded by family.  That was the case leading up to Christmas, but my mystery malady thwarted my plans to return to my childhood home.  Instead, from Tuesday (when the symptoms started coming on) through Sunday, I largely stayed home, with some occasional outings for groceries and the like as my condition began to improve (and once I realized I’d avoided the scourge of The Virus).

Needless to say, that is a lot of time at home.  I am very much a homebody, and like being there, but the demands of work, lessons, family, friends, and all the other social and professional obligations I get myself into mean I rarely get days alone at home.

Be careful what you wish for:  I had six days at home thanks to illness.  Had it not been for being sick, though, it would have been glorious.  Even so, it was pretty great.

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