Last night the Lamar Neighborhood Watch organized an observation of National Night Out, an evening dedicated to supporting law enforcement and encouraging strong community building. Most communities observe National Night Out in August, but Texas and other States observe it on the first Tuesday in October, when the weather is a good bit cooler. August in the South is rarely a good time to host outdoor events.
My walking buddy neighbor helped organize the event, but he took a unique approach to it: rather than having one person or a committee coordinating all of the participants, he invited residents to host whatever bit of entertainment and fun they could muster. The result was a small but truly grassroots street festival.
When he approached me about the idea in August, he asked if I could play some music on Main Street. He recommended I reach out to the owner of the town’s lone grocery store, Piggly Wiggly, who also owns a small insurance agency across the street. My neighbor reasoned that with the Baptist Church on one end of Main Street doing something and the Methodist Church on the other end, having some music going in the middle of Main Street would be a nice touch.
After some rounds of phone tag, I was able to secure access to the insurance agency’s office (where we just need to plug in power), and my buddy John and I set up his small PA with a couple of mics, his guitar, and my keyboard. We put out a tip jar, which I advertised with a sign reading “Give your coppers for the coppers,” and notifying attendees that all tips would be donated to the Lamar Police Department.
The festival itself was small, but lively. The two candidates for mayor were out campaigning, and the Cajun restaurant down the street had a good crowd. My walking buddy was playing a movie at the library (his wife is the head librarian), and I believe at least one residence had a cotton candy machine going at her home.
John and I had our little spot under the awning of the insurance agency, and while foot traffic near us was not huge, we had a good time (and, according to a student of mine who works at the Piggly Wiggly, we could be heard in the parking lot clearly). We played from roughly 6:10 PM to about 7:50 PM without a break—a solid 100 minutes of music. It was fun being back out and playing in public again, and it was good practice for the Spooktacular.
It’s also cool just getting to play in such an unusual spot. I’ve played gigs in some weird spots—a robotics factory in rural Darlington County, South Carolina; in a church gymnasium; at a hookah lounge in Wilmington, North Carolina—but there’s always something particularly engaging and lively about playing in unorthodox settings.
The fact that we were on Main Street made it even more fun. While Lamar isn’t exactly a teeming metropolis, there is still a pulse to Main Street, the kind of pulse that beats in the heart of any city. Sure, sometimes that pulse was the thundering clatter and rumble of a semi-truck carrying empty chicken crates, but it was mostly the people out and about enjoying the evening.
So, how did we do for the police department? Eh, not great. John and I raised a whopping $6 in tips. I counted out the loose change I already had in my tip jar, and that came out to $6.40, so combined we generated $12.40. That might buy Chief a good lunch, at least.
Still, as my walking neighbor said, it’s all about planting a seed. It was a good start for National Night Out, and I look for it to grow in the future.
Small town America. Gotta love it! Wonderful article, Portly!
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Amen! It was so fun seeing people pull together their own little events. My neighbor who spearheaded the general concept was a bit disappointed that more people and groups weren’t involved, but he was pleased to see the participants and attendees he did.
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These things build over time – when word gets out that folks had fun, others will remember when it’s walk time next year.
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Yes! That’s what I told him this morning. I think as people get a better sense for what National Night Out is, and what the intent is supposed to be, more people will participate. I’d love to see it develop into an organic street festival with people coming out and having a good time.
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Years ago in another life, the very small village where I lived held an imaginatively named Village Day to raise money for a new hall. The first year was somewhat ad hoc but everyone got into the spirit. There was a dog show for local mutts, a tug of war competition for burly half drunk farmers, a Greek Cypriot friend cooked and sold lamb kebabs from his garden, there were plant stalls and bric a brac in the church along with the inevitable tea and cakes and so on. All great fun. After that it just got bigger and bigger with each passing year although along the way some of the initial fun was lost but lots of money was raised and in due course a swanky stone hall was constructed . As far as I am aware Kilmersdon Village Day it is still held, well apart from the last two Covid stricken years of course and the first one was in 1986 if I remember correctly.
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Reading that made me so happy, Alys. That’s the kind of civic spirit I want to see here in Lamar—everyone banding together to support their town. It’s such a beautiful picture of folks coming together to help out in a way that is FUN. Hopefully National Night Out will become something like that. I’d love to make a $1240 donation to the police department, rather than a $12.40 one—but it’s a start!
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Good job, eh!
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Thanks, Lindy!
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You have a store and insurance firm called Piggly Wiggly? Nice to know that whimsy isn’t only an English thing. 🙂
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Laughing! Piggly Wiggly is like a grocery/convenience store; according to the story, the man who owns the Piggly Wiggly also owns an insurance company. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fTd1hIiVRnk.
There’s a 70s/80s horror movie – which name escapes me but maybe Port can supply – that has a Piggly Wiggly in it. The movie had to do with machines attacking humans – big rigs, combines, every machine – to kill the humans. It was very over the top and a terrible movie but it was so much fun, you sort of forgave it, lol!
Maximum Overdrive!!! It just came to me!!! If you watch the movie, you’ll notice one of the trucks is a Piggly Wiggly truck, lol!!! https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=20BeizHnW3s.
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I didn’t realize that Piggly Wiggly was THE first supermarket. That’s wild!
I’ve gotta watch _Maximum Overdrive_! Sounds like my kinda flick.
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In the unlikely event of me ever making it to the US a Piggly Wiggly will be on my list of places to visit. Never mind the Grand Canyon or Niagara Falls I want to go grocery shopping for tater tots and vanilla pudding.
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We’ll go, Alys. Prepare to be disappointed. But ours in Lamar is pretty good. Every teenager in town has worked there at some point, and they hire good kids (and adults!).
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This’ll make you laugh. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KVQYaf93Vs0.
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Hahaha, well, not quite. Piggly Wiggly is a grocery store. The man who owns the Lamar Piggly Wiggly ALSO owns an insurance office downtown. I don’t think you can buy a life insurance policy at The Pig, but I could be wrong.
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Insurance is in aisle six. LOL!
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Hahaha, yeah, it’s in a box with a cartoon animal mascot on the cover. Would the life insurance box have a ghost for a mascot? One must wonder….
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I wasn’t ware they still existed under that name, it is (or was) not only the first supermarket but a huge chain. One of my Aunts was married to a district manager for the Pig in central Minnesota. He was a drag, a pure accountant type, but the signs were about the cutest ever.
Sounds a good time, just don’t let it get too over the top, and where the dickens is the beer garden? It’s supposed to be next to the Lion’s club hog roast after all.
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I humbly suggest you get your Nebraska butt to South Carolina for the next Walk Night and get that bbq set up, buddy. Better bring the beer, too.
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Amen! You’ve got a place to crash during your stay, Neo.
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Yep! Piggly Wiggly is now largely a regional chain in the South. We have a lot of them in South Carolina, especially here in the Pee Dee region. They are a bit pricier than other grocery stores, but I really appreciate having the ability to walk to the grocery store to buy food and sundries. Otherwise it’s a twenty-minute drive one-way to Florence.
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Same for me here, a bit more at my independent (a few still exists) but beats driving 20 odd miles to Lexington, not to mention that Wal-Marthas hurt the local store there. The walking four block doesn’t hurt me any either.
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Haha, amen! I sometimes enjoy making a quick grocery run—more of a brisk walk—to The Pig to pick up some items. There’s something very appealing about walking home with groceries.
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Ok – last one; I’m just having so much fun with this this morning, lol! https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FQyph5NzmE0.
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Hahaha, keep ’em coming!
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Tina thanks you for the reference to Maximum Overdrive, for the music alone! 🙂
We haven’t got that film yet, though we will be looking to get it, but you know, cars can operate alone now and I’m not just talking about the self driving models. A former pop star, Brian Harvey, ran himself over with his own car. Sounds bad but I don’t know why, it made me chuckle.
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Ay caramba! I hope Mr. Harvey is okay now. I don’t think I will ever embrace self-driving car technology.
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Thanks Audre, I’ll give them a watch.
Completely off topic but has anyone noticed that the Honda Jazz is the most boring car on the road? No spontaneity, nothing outside the box, nothing bouncy or vibrant, everything jazz is, yet Honda produced this name for what is effectively a tin of spam with wheels. I just thought I’d mention that since I’ve been stuck behind a few of them over the last few days.
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I’m not a car person but I’ll bet the gents here will have something to say, lol.
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Even so, if you give an item the name ‘Jazz’, you’d expect it to be vibrant and funky not boring. The Honda Jazz is the Labour Party of cars. ;\
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Hahahaha, “The Labour Party of cars.” Not a very flattering description.
Yeah, I’d expect something a bit peppier and free-spirited than a subcompact hatchback for a car named “Jazz.”
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I wasn’t a car person until I started shopping for a car a few years ago. Now I love looking at different models.
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I’m not familiar with the Jazz, although it looks a lot like the Honda Fit. It sounds like this review’s summary backs up your assessment: https://www.drivingelectric.com/honda/jazz
I drive a 2017 Nissan Versa Note SV, also a subcompact hatchback, so I don’t have much room to talk, but I do enjoy it.
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The Hybrid looks a bit better, though it’s a spam tin with a pull handle, but the white Jazz further down that link is what those non jazzy cars look like. If that car could play in a jazz club, it’d sound like a clown trumpet and then would saunter off stage for a non fat, soya based latte.
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Your loathing for this excessively utilitarian vehicle knows no bounds. Sounds like you need to write it up as a anti-Honda Jazz screed for TCW.
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Honda make great cars. I loved my ancient Civic. Dunno why people are so sniffy about them.
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Agreed! Hondas are quite reliable. I heard years ago that the most stolen car in America was the Civic, haha, because there was big money to be made in stripping them and selling the parts to unwitting Civic owners. Gotta love free enterprise. ; D
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Not sure we have it, at least by that name. But aside from a few, Dodges mostly with names like Hellcat and Viper, cars are all like that from the smallest rice burner to Cadillac. European ones (including British) are occasionally acceptable. But even so, American and British cars both peaked in 1966, the last year they were designed by the car companies. Starting in 1967 the government took over, and Americans started the switch that would make the Ford F-100/150 the largest selling vehicle in the world.
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Don’t tell anyone but Lon’s got a shrine out in the garage dedicated to the Ford F150. He finally sold Red (1984!!!) just one or two years ago. Mileage done gone round at least three times! Hardly any floor board left on the driver’s side, drivers seat down to a thin piece of fabric over springs … and someone actually BOUGHT it!
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Good time to buy it, just broken in.
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YES! That is awesome—both the shrine and the sell of his 37-year-old truck. I’d love to see the shrine.
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Actually 39, Honda Jazz may be boring but I just had to part with my ancient Civic, a car which in sixteen years never let me down. I would love to have been able to afford a Jazz but out of my orice league these days.
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The Honda Civic is a very good, dependable vehicle. My older brother LOVES his Civic, and has told me that the next time I purchase a car, he will pay the difference between whatever vehicle I am considering and the comparable Honda equivalent.
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Port – they must have moved the insurance, according to what you note above; it used to across the aisle from the Depends. (I’m crackin’ up over here, lol)
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ROFL! You’re on a roll today, Audre!
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Leading to a “Clean up in aisle 6” no doubt.
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I can’t. I tried to write some identity politics in gaming articles for TCW and they wouldn’t allow them. I had to write them for Going Postal instead. They could do with a mix of articles covering different aspects of life on there and I reckon a lot of people might be interested in the idea that the identity whining nutjobs are getting their claws into gaming too.
As for the Jazz, it riles me that anyone could put out what is essentially a box and give it a name like that. It’d be like calling the Biden administration fun and interesting. Well, Weekend at Bernie’s was fun, which is essentially what Biden’s administration is but at least that film had a point to it! 🙂
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Sorry to hear that. It seems like that would be right up their alley. If you’d ever like to write something for this blog, I’d welcome the submission.
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They need it, it’s become nearly monomaniacal about Wuhan Flu. Most of what little I know about gaming comes from Ace’s, billed as a smart military blog but in reality, mostly conservative politico-military blog.
It’s why mine is mixed, and others do a fair amount of college football; “Roll Tide” and “Boiler Up”. Makes a nice mix, the 19th Indiana, and the 3d Virginia, in the Cornfield. But the point is, all politics makes a dull blog, and an even duller blogger, even if they are brilliant, as TCW is.
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I mostly gave up on TCW after the endless Brexit pieces, we got over that and then went into Covid overdrive. Apart from a quick scan I rarely read much on there these days.
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I read most of it, but almost never comment, except on Margeret’s lovely pieces, and Alan’s new series is tempting.
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What’s Alan’s new series about, Neo? Sorry, I know I could just go and look, but this way you’re lured back by an enticing comment. ; D
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Alan – and Margaret (I love Margaret!) – are excellent writers; they both come from newsprint backgrounds. On Sundays, Margaret writes about life where she lives; the flora, the fauna, the cattle (cows, I have learned, are dangerous animals! Who knew?) and Alan is now writing on Wednesdays and his are memories and tales from his younger days and they’re absolutely charming and fascinating to an Anglophile like me.
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I can definitely see cows possessing a certain bovine lethality. They’re deceptively peaceful critters, always chewing their cud ominously.
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Mostly his days as a reporter in the British press, and sometimes London butmostly Lancashire.
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Sad to see they’re becoming one-note. I never read them much, but have read a few things I enjoyed thanks to Audre’s recommendations. Why do you think they have gotten into such a rut?
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It’s interesting reading through these comments about TWC. Is that why all the Brits are suddenly reading and commenting on my blog? I hope I’m avoiding numbing sameness.
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Most of them (maybe all) are friends of mine that I made commenting there and then followed Audre to my blog and on to yours. Pontiac occasionally writes for me too, and I’d certainly not me averse to more from him.
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Yes, our worlds have collided, and I couldn’t be happier.
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Works for me, as well.
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Neo – I agree; they’re killing TCW with numbing sameness. Thank heaven for Margaret and Allen Ashworth – they are such a delight!
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Killed it as far as I am concerned. Dead.
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Very sad to hear.
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Why do you think they’re so fixated on just one topic, Audre? Also, thanks for the phrase “numbing sameness”—I stole it for a response to Neo, haha.
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You have to understand – ‘lockdown’ in the UK was far worse than what we had here. And they were locked down THREE TIMES! Now their government is pushing for children to be vaccinated – the little ones – and no one speaks out against it except for the authors and management for TCW. But it’s exhausting emotionally as well as intellectually when there are places all over the internet explaining that the vaccination isn’t needed for children and their government doesn’t listen.
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In that context, it makes a great deal of sense. I weep to see what is happening in Britain and Australia, the latter of which seems even WORSE than the former, if that is possible.
Thank God for federalism here in the United States; otherwise, we’d be going through the same. Not that Biden, et. al., aren’t trying, but we have more constitutional and legal means to block them.
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Exactly. I understand why TCW is all vax all day but at the same time – there are other things going on in the world.
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Yes, for sure. I read an excellent piece about hunter-gatherers that Ponty shared. They have some real gems over there.
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The Covid thing just took over here Tyler. People were whipped up into a frenzy of paranoia and near hysteria, we were even encouraged to go outside on Thursday evenings to clap for the NHS for goodnessake. I was astonished at the levels of compliance with every government edict about mask wearing, hand sanitising, social distancing etc. Mental. Although TCW put a valiant fight against the excesses of it all they sadly went over the top and the result as you can see amongst those of us here who were once regular commenters and occasional contributors was just boredom. Also I think they have too many different writers now and it feels as if the site has lost its way. I know 39 still does the odd piece for them but although there are things I felt I could contribute I just lost interest.
I like it here. Feels comfy. Audre is here so I am happy.
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I remember seeing the people clapping for the NHS, which I thought was ridiculous. Your point about TCW featuring too many writers and losing its thread—its voice—is an interesting one. I’ve had the occasional guest contributor (I actually had a lady approach me about submitting a piece about freelancing, which may go up next week), but I like to take care of most of the writing myself.
That said, I have been thrilled by the increase in commenters here, and I am so glad you feel at home. Audre is certainly a big boon (I should have her write something for the blog!). You are welcome to submit a piece any time. Same for Ponty, et. al.
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Alys – oh, my gosh! You’ve got me laughing now: tator tots and vanilla pudding! I may have just snorted! LOL!
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That would just be the beginning. I would want to try Coolwhip even though it is not actually made with anything resembling real ingredients, graham crackers, oh thousands of things that we don’t have here. Pork butt! I lnow it is part of the shoulder but just to see it labelled on a counter would give me such joy!
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Whoa! Y’all don’t have Cool Whip and graham crackers? I didn’t realize Britain was so benighted. You’d better get over here posthaste for a trip to The Pig. Maybe I can mail you some graham crackers….
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She’s had a deprived childhood. (wink!)
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Too many doilies and stiff upper lips, not enough Cool Whip.
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I was just teasing her. She’s a wonderful person and smart, smart, smart.
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Sounds like a Saturday night at my place.
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Alys – you’re wonderful.
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Darling Audre, not half as clever as you. XXXXXX
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Tyler, I am Welsh so we don’t go in for the stiff upper lip thing in quite the same way as the English but we are a resiliant lot nonetheless. As for doilies I think Tyrannical Ma may have opened a packet in 1959 and used at the rate of one every five years she probably took fifty years to get through them. I am most certainly NOT a doily person.
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My mistake, Alys. Glad to hear you avoided the lips and doilies of the English. Now, we just need to get you some Cool Whip.
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I did look up what was in Cool Whip once and it was reading a horror story , rather, how I imagined a horror story never having read one. What is wrong with the stuff that comes out of a cow’s udders? I know, Cool Whip never goes off, probably does not need to be refrigerated and fulfils some weird atavistic craving. Or something.
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Alys – bless your dear, kind heart. Big hug.
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Port: actually, it’s been a good thing for Neo – or so he tells me. It takes the pressure off having to produce an article every single day and gives him time to research and get all his ducks in a row for the articles he produces. But he had been watching my comments on TCW for probably a year and had a good idea of who I am. Inviting someone to be a contributing writer can certainly give you some well needed rest from the demands of the blog, you’ll want to be certain that the person you invite shares your views.
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You are absolutely correct. I was initially quite wary that someone I don’t know asked to write a post for my blog. I told her that I ultimately reserve the right to refuse to post it, but we’ll see how it turns out. In general, I much prefer working with people I know—photog, Neo, Ponty, you, etc.
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Margaret Ashworth, in her “Notes from the Sticks” articles, mentioned how cows will charge people simply walking on the road outside their fence. I had no idea, being a city girl. She writes wonderful articles – I think you can read her archived articles on the TCW site. The older ones are the best, though her newer ones are charming as well.
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You’re wise to be careful – what you have in your blog is who you are, what matters to you, years of content creation; your body of work. Your legacy.
I still ask Neo, after more than a year of contributing, to check an article if I’m uncertain of his thoughts on a topic or how I’ve approached a topic. I have tremendous respect for the scope of his work and I would never knowingly damage that so I have no trouble asking he review and then decide if he wants to publish or not. I always abide by his decisions.
You want to find that kind of dedication in someone who will be a contributing author. But you’re a smart guy and surely don’t need me to tell you these things. Shrug. I’m a mom! What can I do, lol?
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(hands on hips) Cool Whip needs to be frozen or refrigerated – we’re not complete savages, ya know!
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